Stopped by to see how you were doing and drop a note on my thread. I'm sorry, it seems that you and W are going and growing through a rough area. You have come so far from where you two were. I'm in the middle of WWIII. I equate you and wife like a lawn mower and you have just hit that place of tall grass that chokes the mower. Why is the grass tall? It's that place in the past where the dog took his dump last month and now you have to get through it. You and she will. I have been watching your progress and your both working at it very hard. Regardless of what you both want your both there and commited to solving it. If you were not it would have been gone and over after she hit the kareokie (?) bar. There is still flame between you both. You'll get there. Maybe stop analyzing so much of what you want and just love. Remember when starting a fire that ember only blooms into a flame between the breaths that you put on it. I pray for you both. Also, pray for a cease fire on my end. I'll fill my thread in later. Mr Metafore. Jim
