Saffie,
I would say chance are the divorce is going to go through. I can tell that this last month is going to real ugly. D is supposed to be final last week of October. If I understand your posting, her guilt and regrets will sometime after that.

It is very sad. She thinks the kids are doing just fine. I know they are resentful towards both of us for letting this marriage fall apart. 25 years.....her reason for leaving...she did not want to spend the rest of her life with someone that had clinical depression. Wonder if she would have left if I had cancer???

I am trying to act happy. She seems elated to be out of the house (7 months now). I am starting to GAL.

Thanks,
SL