Not sure if anyone else has already advised this, but has your H considered volunteering in a comparable position to the one he had? That way, he can prove his worth, maybe make himself feel better by helping others, and get to meet people who can give him a reference without knowing about the affair.
Just a thought!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
