I haven't read much about your sitch because I have been wrapped up in mine. I leaned of my W's infidelities just last weekand I am having a very difficult time. RJJ was kind enough to stop by my thread and give me some encouragement as well as to advize me to read your sitch.
After only a little reading, I see why RJJ wanted me to do so. It helps to know that hope remains and that it is ok for me to be where I am and feeling what I am. I am in a terrifying and very lonely place, but just knowing there are others feeling as I do brings a little peace into this storm.