Ok, I need some advice. I filed for Spousal Support w/o Divorce last month, H got a lawyer and countered by filing for Divorce (along with refusing to pay any bills and even requesting I pay his L-total bs since he makes 4x what I make). Anyway, I have a L appt in the morning to answer his petition and, even though I didn't really want a divorce, I am not sure if I want to contest it.. It would cost alot more and I'm not sure if I want to stay married to this person, a man who refuses to give me any $$, I am paying all the bills, and he even suggested that I ASK MY MOM FOR HELP. This house is in both of our names & I am on disability and don't make enough for the mortgage, let alone the other bills. I been reading about some real a**hole WAHs on this board, guys with girlfriends, guys who ignore their kids but are still helping with the bills and it makes me think that my H is just not a decent person. I really didn't want a divorce but I respect his choice and I don't think contesting it would benefit me. Am I still standing for my marriage if I don't contest it?
