How funny!!! Yes, to go from being appeciated to being talked down to.....lovely.
One of H's major complaints is that I love my job too much. Umm yeah, HE was there when I took this job, supporting me, telling me to give it my all because I could really be happy here, etc. Now, I love it too much?
morgan, think about it this way. You are still the wonderful mother that you were pre-bomb and what H says/implies doesn't matter. Guess what? Who's sitting 'pretty' now, with free time out the gazoo, no home responsibilities and can come and go as he pleases.... HMPH to your H for making you feel even the tiny bit unsure of how important your job is.