That was easy. I called and got his voicemail, and said the following... "Hi H. I just wanted to get back to you. Yeah, I'd like to figure some of this stuff out together if we can. I'll get in touch with ya again soon. I hope you're doing well. Bye for now."
I chose a soft-spoken and friendly tone, figuring that will get me the furthest with him right now. Other times, I seem to need to be more tough. That should allow me some space for a bit.
It sure feels like fall outside. My ears are still kinda cold from that walk.
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.