Hey..sorry to hear everyone sick on d b-day..you can always celebrate tomorrow.
I know what you mean about the changes being for real..I sometimes don't think I have changed much..but I think I have...will the old habits creep back..that's where we have to be able to recognize them and stop them before they take over. You have your w at home and she seems to want to work things out.Let your heart heal...the forgiveness will come.
Take care
Sue