Jethro..I went out and got the The Five Love Languages book, and while there saw the other books Chapman wrote..a great one I got is Hope-For The Seperated, Wounded Marriages Can Be Saved.The back cover says that a seperation may not be the end, but a new beginning.So I am so excited to read what he has to say..he is involved with a Baptist Church, and Baptists have different ideas then I might believe, but hey..it looks so good.I wonder if somewhere I should suggest h to read it. Hope your day was good..Illinois is getting our first snow storm of the season tonight..6-12 inches in northern Ill.. Take care..will let you know more about how I like the books. Sue