Just caught up on your thread. I am so sorry!!! Darn, girl you are strong. I would have went A$$ crazy on H if I found out he lied when the kids were with him. Course, I would have regretted it later, so GOOD JOB!
The thing is, I am where you are. In life, I first started out saying, my H would NEVER cheat on me, never do anything to hurt me or the kids, and would always put us first.
Now, I say, I am just grateful that I don't have to worry about my kids' safety/happiness when they are alone with H.
See, if that last thing gets stolen from me, I don't know what I'll do.