My H has made it clear he is no longer interested in staying in the M. He will be moving out the first of October. We thought it would be easier on the kids D18; D17; D11; if he lived at home for one week and I lived at home for one week. We both have friends we can stay with on our week off. I think it is important for him to spend a week with the kids since he is stil their father and he needs to share in the responsibility. I also don't want to be the one at home dealing with all the day-to-day BS and he comes flying in and takes the kids to a movie or out for dinner. My concern is, am I giving up some right to the house or the kids by agreeing to this arrangement?