Olive, I'm with root on the bending. You need to show him that the same old Olive doesn't exist. This is the new Olive. The one that is mysterious. Even if you are putting on a front, I think you need to try it. He needs to wonder.
My XH made multiple comments about the way I dressed during our separation. I lost a lot of weight, so I had to buy a whole new wardrobe. I'm I size 2 now and I'm going to show it off. I always thought the hotter I looked the crazier he looked for leaving me and what's wrong with that. I told some of my friends that I was going for the WTH is wrong with her H look. He would say...do you always dress so scantily. One time, he said it doesn't look like you have any panties on under those white pants...I just told him I didn't. You should have seen the look on his face...it was priceless. Another time, he wouldn't let me get out of the car at the gas station because all these guys were standing outside. I always said well now that I am looking for a new man, I have to dress like this. You got to keep them guessing.
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