okay, now knock off the snooping. although in this case, since it involves your son, I would be doing the same thing. but otherwise, if your son wasn't involved, I would say it gets addicting and can end up hurting more than helping.

now back to what you found out. wow about the time...that is really late, was S2 out that late? where was this hotel in relation to things he did with S2 that day? when it comes to the kids, I would want to know....H and I are courteous about things regarding them, and it would really scare me if we weren't co-parenting as well as we are. I'm not asking for him to check in with me about every little thing they do, but I want to know where they are living, and if there is anything out of the ordinary I would definitely like a heads up. for instance, during the week when I have the kids, I would never take them out of town overnight w/o letting H know, and I would expect the same of him on the weekends. not asking permission, but a courtesy.

Last edited by morgan; 09/18/07 12:40 AM.

M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

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