Well woman, you need to bend a bit. Wouldn't you say OW is a bent arrow? When my husband started to become alarmed with my words or *behavior* I'd say... but isn't that what you find attractive? (Referring to OW). Obviously she has an open marriage. Why not? Then of course he started defending the ideas of marriage to me!!! Hey buddy, get your ideas sraight here!!!
Shame pulling him further into the relationship. That's something I've read about. I think there may be something about that in "Not 'Just Friends.'"
Well, give him space and you live your life happily... and non-dependent on anyone else for that happiness.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
