Is this a valid reason to call him? To discuss finances? Maybe an e-mail. I've done the e-mail thing. He just ignores it.
I've transferred what we need for the month to a separate acct, so we are ok. However, my name is still attached to the acct he's depleting. When he overdraws, my a$$ is on the line too. I could pull out the $ from the cd early, put it in savings. Then he won't see a huge amount to spend (he strictly uses the ATM), but, in the event he overdraws, the bank will take it out of savings and not charge fees.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9