Thanks bunches, Nikki!

A couple other things I can use....

If H continues to question whether I'm done, I could say "Yeah, I don't *see* a reason not to be."

This is a great one that came from Julie, to use if he is displaying anger... "Let's take some time to process these new feelings, so we're able to communicate from a place of understanding rather than fear or anger."


Me: 37
M: 14 yrs
Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07
Life is good.