If H continues to question whether I'm done, I could say "Yeah, I don't *see* a reason not to be."
This is a great one that came from Julie, to use if he is displaying anger... "Let's take some time to process these new feelings, so we're able to communicate from a place of understanding rather than fear or anger."
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.