MC - nervous and need advice

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H says that I am not open enough w/my feelings--while failing to recognize that expressing every feeling is not a sign of emotional maturity, particularly when it involves throwing the remote control, slamming doors, calling names, etc..

So no, not passive aggressive (he says I am passive aggressive). I would say just aggressive!

I think D1.5's arrival made H feel very, very inadequate. I am trying to build his confidence w/her. I was surprised to note he did not know how to change a diaper. As she is older he is paying more attention to her.

H does not make ebough to support the three of us and that is why I think he feels bad about his career. I think the responsibility just scared the crap out of him.