I LOVE living alone

[forever21]

Okay, here's where I'm at now. I think I'll give my H a return call and wondering if my plan sounds good or not.

I chose not to follow up with him since his angry VMs Friday, as I didn't see a need. He called this afternoon and left another message. I missed his call, but he was much less angry today. This is what he said....

So, I guess, uhh... [big sigh] I wanted to call. I've been trying not to call, but, I just uhh, I don't know, [sigh] I guess you're just done, huh? That's it? You don't want to.. wanna call me back, nothing? You're just done and that's that? Well, [sigh] alright, I guess we're gonna have to figure some sh^t out then, huh? [nervous laugh, smiling, friendly..] Well, we're gonna have to figure some sh^t out anyhow no matter what, but I guess that's just the road we'll go down then. K, whatever. I'll talk to you I guess whenever you feel it's necessary.

Pretty impressive that he managed to keep a respectful tone throughout the call.

Not that it's necessarily relevant, but I had another dream about him again last night. Kinda strange, and it came to mind just now. Last week I had one where I felt a real attraction to him and we kissed passionately in the dream. It was especially weird because I hadn't felt that way with him for what seems like, ever. In last night's he had come back to me, and we were really passionate with one another. There was a strong attraction for both of us and he seemed different in a good way, though the way he was living his life was still not yet completely attractive to me. Weird.

Back to the issue at hand....

Plan...
Give him a quick call back. Say.. "Hi H, sorry I missed your call, just getting back to you. I only have a sec... Yes, I am done, and I will get in touch with you soon so we can hopefully figure some stuff out together."

I'm not always good at being prepared for everything. I imagine he might say this isn't what he wanted.... to which I can say it's not what I wanted either, and then say I have to go. Let's see... what else could he bring up?... that he wants to move into the house, or something like that... No. Just a simple no, without being defensive. That's probably a good response to many things he might try to bring up, I'm guessing.