Lis, If you are reading this thread, please know that we all love you, but most of all, we are concerned for the safety of you and your children. Please be careful. I don't trust Puffy one bit and I do not want to see you or your children hurt.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.