I'm not sure what you mean. To me, this is congruous with her belief system: that men are driven by the visual (the portrayal of the sex act), and that women, being more complex creatures, are drawn by the more esoteric interplay of the characters.
Yeah, this is what most women believe, including your wife and mine. But when it comes to actions, both our wives seem to diverge from what they say. This is one of the things I've pointed out to my wife, that she is not consistent between her words and her action.
One way she seems to bridge this inconsistency is she separates herself from other women. She will say that of course intimacy is what any woman would want. But when I ask her what SHE wants, I do not get such a straight answer. So I was wondering if MrsHD also believes what she said, until it applies to her.
