Don't forget #9. The one that trumps most of the other concerns -- the children / family.
Hope, I do understand this one was not a factor for you. But, Andy, I have to say that the dedication, love and commitment to the family is the most overriding concern right now, for me at least. The building of this family for most people is the primary reason for getting married in the first place. It is a foundation for the covenant between a husband and wife under God.
