I don't know exactly what happened, but I don't think it went as far as I feared. (I let my emotions and feare get the best of me... again).
Last night H sent me 4 videos via cell phone of S2 playing. Not sure what to make of that exactly. I haven't talked to H, but S2 and bank acct charges reveal the following.
S2 babble:
1. Toys? Where the toys goo? Papa toys? Toy too much. Only 25. 2. Papa go night night in car. Other bed too big. Papa sleep in car.
Bank charges in Riverside: 1. Toys R Us $27.98 2. Gas 3. ATM $100.00 4. Best Western charge $5.00 (last night there was an $88.00 pending w/no details. that is now gone and only a $5 charge remains)
Convo w/FIL and BIL 1. H went to Riverside alone w/S2. 2. H left aroun 9 PM and told FIL he was taking him back to me.
Originally, all I had was convo info and assumed he went to OW b/c he definitely didn't come here.
Current deductions: 1. H bought toys for S2. Went slightly over his self-imposed $25 limit 2. Possibly booked motel room, decided against it ("bed too big") 4. Best Western $5.00 may be a cancellation fee 5. They slept in the car?
I really don't know what to make of all of this. I'm just glad everyone is ok and that I didn't totaly flip out on him with accusations. I have to sit and think on everything now.
Thanks My3sons for the L info. I sometimes forget these people are in the biz of making $, not necessarily looking out for my family's best interests.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9