I think it may because if I accept him for him and our M, that I know I'm shutting the door on another life. On having more. On having "an out."
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LFL, what is the more? What is it that you think is out there that you can't have within your M?
I don't think anything in particular is "out there". I just am tired of the "in here." And I am not blaming my H. Just like you said about you and your ExW, she questioned why it didn't work in Your M. Maybe it wasn't You or Her but the two of you together that just wasn't going to work. Each of you apart could find a better R with someone who was a better match for you. Not perfect. Just someone who could help you feel like the person you are and want to be. I'm still trying to figure out if that is possible with my H.
