why not give yourself permission to really evaluate everything else in your life (besides your relationship with your H). Are all your relationships with friends and family as good as you want? What about work? Anything more or less you can do there? What about hobbies and outside interests? What ARE your passions????
I really feel like I am maintaining more independence from H since our reconcilation. But not as much as I would like. I think I have reverted somewhat because I am a little depressed about taking on this whole M again. I just feel like I might regret it down the road and then I feel sh*tty for even thinking that way. I have gotten into work/hobbbies/interests but that is no substitute for what I feel is lacking. I want a passioante RELATIONSHIP, not passion in every other part of my life. Yes, it can distract me for a while but I ALWAYS come back to this issue. Always.
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Raven is an amazing man!! But (ironically?) we would have never found each other or connected the way we did if we hadn't been the Left Behind Spouses.
Maybe it was fate. Similar circumstances led to your bond but why him and why now? Sure it's lots of hard work and lots of pain to sort through,but you did find each other. So that's something good.
