Next time you meet a guy that you think is tall, bald, and adorable ... ask him if he is driving with a suspended license while you look to see if he has non current tags. Then ask to see his insurance so you will know it is safe to be in his possession while wearing certain paraphenilia.
If that discussion makes his eye start to twitch or his forehead start to sweat, he may not be Mr.Right, unless you are looking for Mr.RightNow.
Knowing what you know now, don't you feel a lot better every time you look in the mirror, every time you get in your new car, and every time you think about being able to provide for the kids? We struggle so badly in the beginning of our journey to see how blessed we are in spite of life's twists and turns.
Your blessings should be getting very very clear after hearing the latest update. I guess the real question eventually becomes "why is anyone telling you this, except for laughs, and do you really need updates in the future?"