Thank you all for your insight. I think you are right...the angry phase. Still trying to control me through his actions. Oh well. Like many LBS, I am going to take page from you guys and backoff and let him have his space. I guess this is where I end on the fence. Starting out as WAW trying to work things out and then having my LBS flip to the WAH...Maybe he will come to grips that this punishing behavior is not the way to lure me back. I am still hanging tough for the time being.
Depending on dates & location the ski trip could be a possibility. Keep me posted on the info and I will let you know for sure once I assess time off & finances. Thanks again. It would be nice to put faces to all of your screen names
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.