your H is responding defensively and still trying to control the situation. As we keep saying, hopefully he'll wake up.
This man sounds like he still wants to be with you, but is just so damn stubborn he doesn't know how to do it.
Spot on, IMHO. Your H has too much pride in him still, and just isn't willing (able?) to swallow it. He's thinking that these current actions of his will "whack some sense into you" or something -- I know this because I basically did the exact same thing with W. He is going through an angry phase, and he will need to work through it before he can begin letting his guard down and opening himself up to self-criticism and humility regarding your R/M.
Take care, waw -- and can I now tentatively place you on the DB ski/board event list?
