I haven't posted to you and I am not familiar with your sitch, but I am so sorry for your news - for you and for your kids. It's unimaginable the things our spouses put us through, yet here we all are...
Please remember that you WILL find your own happiness in time. I know it's hard, but be strong for your kids, as this is happening to them too. You'll get through this - like you've gotten through the rest of it.
still
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D
