it was about half the size of a pea. we got it out. i feel better after talking to the doctor. he has his test next wednesday. he talked to me a little bit on the way back to school. he basicly told me that OM refers to me as his(S8's) "best friend" when he talks about me, and that OM won't talk to him because of the paper thing and cuz he got his card turned at school yesterday, and...oh yeah, i am still regularly referred to as "dick" over at the love shack to the point that XW has my name programmed on her phone as dick. I know this because yesterday when he called me he saw mammas phone say now calling dick, s8 knows that this is derrogatory. he says that these things make him want to punch them in the face. I of course told him to not do that. Perhapse om could have fond some dudes wife that could still breed so he could have his own kids to f%#k up and leave mine alone.......
Richie is not happy, and he is not a very nice man when he isn't happy.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
I have settled down a bit since my last post. I am putting this issue in God's hands because there is really nothing that I can do. Today is the day of his "test". XW will not be there, which for me is a blessing. She brought S3 to the door this morning and I asked her if she was planning on picking up S8 from school. She said that she wouldn't be going to the appointment because she had a sick child there. So I guess it is a waiting thing.....and you all know how much patience I have.
Yesterday I went for a drive trying to get a few sunset shots for a modeling shoot i did the other night.... XW called and asked if I could pick up the spelling books on the next two Thursdays and (get this)"deliver them" to her house. I chuckled at the deliver comment and said that I would do it. S8's teacher asked for parent volenteers this year to do various things because she is actually teaching second and third grade, and XW signed up for correcting spelling books. I realize that the teacher needs help, and she is an awesome lady, very good to S8. My first reaction was to tell XW to get the books herself and "deliver" them up her @$$, however I just took into consideraton the source, and figured that it couldn't be easy for her to ask me to do anything. Plus overall it helps the teacher. I will update tonight.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
k so i will update tomorrow..... the receptionist had the wrong date believe it or not. my card says today, i made the appointment for today....she had tomorrow on her computer and the dude was booked
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
The C doesn't seem to think that he has ADHD which is a good thing. He does think that he has some anxiety and maybe some issues stemming from the D(he brought it up, not me). He sent home some evaluations to fill out for XW, his teacher and I..... However......
S8 went to a Vollyball game with my cousins this evening. My cousins son and him were in the hallway and S8 dialed 911....twice He aparently didn't think it would go through because there was no money in it. Well the police officer got there and S8 told him what happened right away. So my cousin brought him home. I sent him to bed and grounded him for tomorrow. He was upset(Friday night is suppose to be video game night for us) but friggen lost it when I told him I had to tell XW. I also told him that if the cops story is different than his when I talk to him he will be in more trouble. My question is was I too easy on him?
So I call XW. She didn't answer so I left a VM explaining what happened(pretty much how I explained it above). I missed her return call and she left a VM saying: See, just another example of him acting on impulsive behavior and getting into trouble. Make sure you put that on your evaluation form.
Then she calls back again me:hello her:yeah and S8 is the kind of kid that needs direct supervision at all times, he shouldn't be going to things like that in the first place but if he does he needs to be sitting in the bleachers under direct supervision.
me: well, I don't know if they were getting food or what...
her: you need to find out, i'm sure he and as well as a bunch of other kids were running around, well he can't do that, he needs to be under direct supervision. he can't handle not being under direct supervision....
I could litterly feel anger welling up in my throat so I just said yeah--ok and she hung up.
So my kid dialed 911 because he has ADHD and isn't on Meds for it. She talks about him like he is some kind of freak. He is no worse or no better than any other damn 8 year old.
My next question is who actually says "as well as" in an actual spoken conversation.....
Last edited by blyndfaith; 09/21/0701:02 AM.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
My next question is who actually says "as well as" in an actual spoken conversation.....
Someone who is talking down to you.
Reply to her:
Quote:
No, he doesn't need "direct supervision" all the time. He's a kid whose mother and father have split, who either directly or indirectly hears his mother bad mouth his father all the time, and who is living with a 'guy' his mother is not married to who really could give a rats as$ what happens to him.
XW, how do you think he feels when you spew your venom at me in his presence, or he sees that I'm 'dick' on your cellphone? Well I'll tell you . He feels like there must be something wrong with HIM because, after all, he loves his father. And there must be something wrong with him if he can love someone who is so 'awful' in his mothers eyes.
You are welcome to hate me, blame me for your life, call me a dick or whatever you want. BUT every time you do it in front of OUR SON you're stabbing him in the heart and twisting the knife.
I had copied that into my email pretty much word for word, but I think I will hold off. Only because I have to imagine that is just what the C will say to her. I think it will have more impact coming from a professional. Also that is "what I should have said" when she said that to me last night on the phone. Instead I lost to anger, and had to end the conversation. What I need is to have Frank in my head.
I thought about it more last night, and I think she knows that she is full of $#!t. Afterall, her wxact words were always, "I know that S8 is active, but if anyone ever told me that he had ADHD, I'd snap(or pull him from the school, or ect.) XW always thought that kids should not be medicated for behavior problems..... Now I'm getting quotes form med websites describing S8's behavior. Does anyone think that maybe the reason this is all coming up now, with the meds, and the "uncontrollable impulsive behavior" is that maybe OM is having a problem with the kids? It's been almost 2 years..... The initiall "lovey dovey everything will always be perfect as long as we have each other" feelings have probably worn off. I don't know, but I really don't want those 3 boys to be caught up in their drama.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
