OC,

He says he's over her and that he will not contact her - but he seems to have some sort of internal demons he is still processing or getting - what they are I am unsure and he says he doesn't (or can't yet) want to explain b/c it may make me feel worse. I imagine the worst usually - considering what I have gone through - hell what most of us here have gone through...

I wonder what the timeline is for the WAS who come back - how long to get through all their emotional baggage that comes with having this external relationship????!!!!

He did get me a nice card with Love mentioned in the text but he personally did not write 'Love, H'...I was kinda hoping but knew in my heart he is not there yet!

Only time will tell...I am just happy we are working on us as a team for once!!

OC - I have been following you too - you seem to be just going day by day. You are hanging tough!! Keep at it! At some point things will sway your way!

HB \:\)


Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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