Hi all, been fairly busy with work the last week and haven't been able to talk much here, however i think the DB thing is starting to have an affect on my W. She is now concerned where i am and where i am going, has been extremely nice to me the last week, and has been starting conversations with me that hasn't happened in a long time. I still am trying to keep my distance, and even started to do 180's on a lot of things. My biggest concern is doing the LRT as everyone suggests because my W has filed. I think that the LRT is what made her do a night out with the girls last week, and also made her go to the beach with those same girls. Both were at the last minute and i think that she did both to spite me. She had planned to goto the beach from thursday to saturday, and actually came home on friday. Didn't ask what happened, and she said that the girl she went with had been called into work. Part of my 180's are things that I have said that i would do around the house, such as painting and cleaning the garage and my work bench, and have put off for months and years. I painted the kitchen this past weekend and actually got a compliment from the W that it looks good. I thanked her and said that i have a lot more to do. Maybe the LRT right now is too drastic, and i think i will continue with the 180's to see if i get more response. Any ideas?