Sounds like a pretty broad generalization to me. I think you could find a lot of WASPs behind those gated communities who lead an exciting and sex filled life, without heavy drinking.
Okay, let me clarify. I would never date a man who lived in a gated community because the whole concept of the gated community is in opposition to my value system. Also, I take back what I said before, I don't know why exactly but it is true that men to whom the words "ethnic" and "city" could be applied are disproportionately attracted to me. In the 36 hours since I re-opened my profile, I have received 5 serious responses (by serious I mean responses that are actual e-mails that reflect that the writer actually read my profile) of those 5 responses 3 were from men who are members of ethnic minorities. One of the more WASP types I found amusing because he said he was working on "not being a jack*ss and teaching his teenage son to not be a jack*ss" but the man is a complete cultural conservative so I won't date him.
More evidence: I live in rural/suburban white bread Michigan and since I have been single I have not initially approached any men myself for dates or e-mail interaction and the men I have dated or seriously communicated with have included a physicist raised in Israel, a teacher at an alternative school with a New York borough accent who was in the gang on which West Side Story was based, Jewish playwright/professor, African-American artist, peace activist of Middle Eastern descent, neuro-psychologist raised in Klinger's Hungarian neighborhood, man of Native American heritage who owned music stores in Chicago etc. Are you getting the picture? I like men who are counter-cultural, creative, liberal, artistic and intellectual and guys who fit that description can probably tell from my portrait even though I don't come right out and say anything like that and mostly just babble about biceps - lol.
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So what are you saying... you couldn't handle it? What did driving into the inner city part of Detroit have to do with this? Did being in the inner city somehow negate your decision chemical buzz?
I'm a total dopamine junkie. Driving through inner city Detroit on my way to have seriously hot sex is a total turn-on for me because it makes it more of an exciting adventure just like sneaking out of the house at midnight to meet my bf was an exciting adventure when I was 16. I'm not exactly proud of these tendencies in myself and I am going to try to focus more on emotional connection in the future.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
