I understand that it is for the church's sake but it kind of puts you and your marriage in the position of the sacrificial lamb.

Only you know whether thats the right thing to do. The guy can't really believe what he preaches if he can carry on like this.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength