I would confront him with this.

You are divorced and he is still trying to cake eat. I would let him know (if you are ready to) that you will not put up with his crap,and you have and can again live without him. It's called the ultimatum but you have to be ready for what happens.

Things that you have said make it sound like it will go toward you but, you need to be prepared if it doesn't.

Him calling her sweety on the text is telling me he is cake-eating so in MOP something needs to be said.

My H did this. I confronted him whenever I found out something and it did scare him enough to make him realize what he was losing and things are getting better.

JAK

Last edited by jak58; 09/17/07 02:42 PM.
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