I find it so hard to believe that he is still pursuing that path considering what he is doing. However Theo that really is not your resposibility. Your responsibility is to you and your family.

I know as a person you put others often before yourself but I think in this situation you have to put yourself and your family first. If it will bring your wife up short if you expose the situation, and that would probably work to your advantage, then go for it; but don't do it for others. It really is time to put yourself and your family first. Once you are healed you will be able to go on and help others more effectively.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength