I think this is normal. I actually told H back when he was deadset on D'ing me, that there had been plenty of times when I felt like I didn't even like him as a person, but that I just worked through that or kind of ignored it and went on. When we are w/ one person for so many years, we are going to go through all kinds of emotions and feelings toward that person, but choosing to continue to love them no matter what is the choice that most of us here have made.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10