Haven't had the I'm emotionally gone speech...which I need to do soon.

The clock is ticking with us. MY wife wants a separation in 12-18 months when we can afford it.

I will press for a D.

I'm already beginning to spend more and more time away from her.

Most importantly I need to show her I'm gone. One way is to sit her down and make a plan for her getting a job -- pushing her out of the nest.

--Theoden