DD is so in love with our new home, we have only lived here for less than a year (after spending 2 years building it). Bomb was dropped a month after we moved in.
I know completely how frustrating this is. XH and I built our house about 3 years ago...we did most of work along with my dad. We have spent the last 7 years of our lives building this great horse farm, and now it sits pretty well abandoned. I look around and think how could he walk away from everything. It is absolutely insane for me to live here by myself, but until I get my life figured out I have no plans to sell it. Even more crazy is on the D day, XH looked at me and told me to smile...my life wasn't over. I just looked at him and said my life as I knew it is over...just goes to show how much denial the WAS's are in.
You have to look at your daughter and know that the life that you had planned for her is now different...and there is really nothing you can do about it...it sucks. Hang in there and try to stay strong.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
