Thoughts on phone calls

[notgivnup]

Bryan,
I completely understand. My H does the same thing. It hurts more than I can say. It is in those moments, that if you can reach down really deep and be happy for her, that you will lay the foundation for her to realize you are her friend and that's where the seeds of doubt about what she is doing will begin to take hold.

I am so sorry it hurts so badly. I'm not so sure it means she is removing you from her life. If she felt lost to your M perhaps she is finding herself for the first time in a long time. That is a good thing. In order for the R to heal she has to be whole and then decide about coming back. Finding herself (IMHO) is a good sign that that could happen. And the fact that she is confiding in you is great. I know it's hard but better than if she weren't sharing anything with you, now that would be bad.

I am working with Jody also and she is fabulous, don't you think?

We are here for you. Cheering you on and being upbeat when you can't be. Hang in there.
Chris