Hi TOH, I know how hard it is to stay focused. It sounds like you are being bounced around alot. Can you try to stay focused on your goals? Have you identified them with DR?
It's like you are playing his game. You want to change the playing field all together. I can't tell what the tone was in this exchange, but, be honest, were you in a friendly, care-free, GAL tone or something that could be construed as negative?
It's hard to say why he is mad, but it sounds to me like you are drawing him in and he is responding to that in a positive way but then you seem to be toying with him because you have some power. Again, I don't know for sure. Just my interpretation.
My recommendation, and I'm not an expert here, is to get a session with a DB coach ASAP. It is definitely worth the money. They can help you identify your goals and what to specifically do and not do to reach those goals with H and R.
You were right in the beginning of your post. Don't analyze him. You can't know what he is thinking or what his motives are for what he is doing. You'll make yourself crazy(ier?).
Sometimes when I feel that way, I'll read a chapter of DR or find an article or success story here. It really helps. You have friends here to help and support you.
Hope you have a better day.
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