Valeria - I agree about Always' postings - she has been through so much, and retains her grace ad poise.
I found your h's remark about 'stopping' him so interesting. This chimes so well with what a very shrewd friend of mine has said several times. That there is a bit of my h that wishes I would just march in and 'rescue' him from the OW. But of course that is a part of their fantasy. As you say, in practice it is a runaway train, and yes a bit of them does not like the ride, and wants to be rescued, but as we all know, they bitterly resent any attempt, in reality, to rescue them. And even if we could, there is the view that they 'have' to go through this process.
