Yeah, but the emotional is part of what I have to work on. One of my big 180s---for me, not just for the M---is sharing myself, even the scary stuff. So to get where I want to be, I have to share that stuff with H, regardless of how he responds. And he's asking me to share, so I'm not worried about that part. And he may just hear it and think, okay, but whatever he thinks, I have to talk.
So the emotional is the practical for me, the how do I move on from this part.
Then there's the practical-practical, the money stuff. Ugh.
