(((Puddle)))! Are u sure u don't know me? Funny how someone u have never met may intuitively know me better than someone I have lived with for 17 yrs.
I think I do know you. And I bet your W does, too, but my guess is she's intimidated by you (and so would I be) and is lashing out. I don't know, mind you, but that's my guess. What does she do, by the way, besides be Mrs. CVA? (not career, necessarily, if she doesn't have one, but how does she spend her time, and what did she do before having kids?)
Originally Posted By: CVA
If u talked to my W and explained to her the way I think, she would probably listen more to u than me. To her, I am just a ridiculous mess who has taken everything out on her and stifled / ruined her life.
She might listen more; she certainly isn't listening to you right now. How does she think you've stifled/ruined her life?
Originally Posted By: CVA
Frankly I have no idea why her comment got to me and told her so.
Really? No idea, huh? Let me guess: you're feeling like she's critical of everything you do in life, including the things you do for her and the kids, doesn't appreciate any of it, and now she's going to criticize your driving? Me thinks this had nothing to do with driving but everything to do with criticism/lack of appreciation in general.
Like last night, I asked H to tell me whether he'd be home for dinner and he didn't, and by the time he got home I was fit to be tied. I'd gone from, I don't know whether to include him in dinner plans to that inconsiderate SOB, not only am I not good enough to be married to, he doesn't even deign to let me know what his plans are, shows what I mean to him ....
Originally Posted By: CVA
Told him I don't know where this is going just wanted him to know I loved him but that mom not happy with me at all...W asked me tonight what S9 has said
What did you say?
Originally Posted By: CVA
My bed is now "deflating" in the middle of the night, this is sad.
Once you have your own bed and own house, you won't have to worry about that, at least!
