Sorry, I did not get any of your feedback before H got here. It took him 2 hours instead of one, but he came. He called when he got here. I went out and he had the nerve to be nice. "Hi how are you?" Wanted to tll him to shove it, but didn't. I got the carseat and S2, who was elated to see me). H had 3 huge bags full of new toys! WTH? He has always badmouthed S9's dad for buying too many toys as compensation and flat out bribery.
Anyway, I did calmly say that I am fine, but I do not appreciate being lied to. He questioned that, and I told him I knew he didn't stay in Riverside. He blew out a big huffy breath at that (in honor of Junie B Jones). S2 was already inside with one of my girl friends. I retrieved all of S2's things, minus the bribes. Maybe I should have taken them, but they just seem dirty to me under the circumstances. I'm speculating that they were an attempt to buy affection from OW b/c H is not much of a toy buyer.
Yes, I was concerned for S2's safety. I don't know what this man is capable of at this point. It is clear that he does not have our children's best interests at heart. He is being completely selfish. I know for a fact that my son was xrying for me and home this morning. Grandpa's house would have been difficult for him. A complete stranger's house must have been extremely uncomfortable, to say the least.
Thanks, M3S. I have already started that log by recommendation of my L. Speaking of my L, I'm supposed to meet with her on Tue to discuss custody and chil support w/ legal separation. I'm so PO'd right now I'm considering just filing for D.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9