My DD has taken things really well. She does have her moments, especially late in the evening before bedtime, she gets a bit "whoa is me". But overall she has not been affected too much.
I think it is because I have handled things as best I can, and have not shown my anger in her presence, or argued in front of her. She knows what her mother has done, and she knows OM is part of the cause. I think it will hit her when we sell up and move away from each other. DD is so in love with our new home, we have only lived here for less than a year (after spending 2 years building it). Bomb was dropped a month after we moved in.
Also, I have been spending all of my free time with DD, doing things together, taking the slack up for W's new lifestyle.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
