Growing up is hard to do

[peaceful_spirit]

Angelica,
Very well put. I know all I have control over is my reaction to H's behavior.

H left today for Boston. We were quite friendly to each other today. He slept downstairs again (which he will continue to do until he moves out). We ate breakfast together and had pleasant conversations. I ran a few errands this morning. Shortly after I got back, H left for Boston. He'll be gone until Friday night (thank GOD).

As he was getting in his car, he asked me if I was all set for S3's birthday. So, I opened my car and showed him all the stuff I bought. Wow, it must be easy to be a dad only when it's convenient to him.

So, this afternoon I did some gardening, made cupcakes with S3, hung with the neighbors in front of their fireplace. Then ended my night putting together the stuff I got S3.

I'm in good spirits.