NG, you may well be right about showing vulnerability.
H has always been drawn to women w/major problems. Said I was together and that was why he was drawn to me.
But I wonder if the "helping" is also a control thing.
I think H feels very inadequate at this point in his career. So my thought is: will he be able to recognize his career disappointments and try to DO soemthing about them?
Or does he need a worshipful groupie so badly that this is what he really wants?
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D