Hi Nanah - When I said that I've been leaving him alone a lot what I meant was before I kept talking to him and pursuing him and hugging him to show him that even if he doesn't love me I still love him but then he said it was making him feel uncomfortable and then told me that he was seeing ow. He told me that I need to move on and are getting a D. After that happened Friday night I've just kind of backed off we still live in the same house with our 3 year old S but H sleeps om the couch. My H had told me that I didn't show him enough of the love he needs he said I didn't tell him enough that I loved him and I feel just terrible that he feels that way so for a little while I was telling him constantly that I love him but he said it made him feel uncomfortable so now since Friday night I have not told him ILY and no hugs because it made him uncomfortable. Now I've just been doing the opposite no hugs no ILY and I only talk to him when I have to like about our S. Am I doing the right thing I mean I just dont know what to do because I dont want him to feel uncomfortable but I dont want him to feel that I dont love him. Also it's really hard to talk or look at him since he told me about the OW. If you have any more great advice Nanah I would really appreciate it. Thank you so much for listening and helping me. Hugs to you Nanah..........Very sad
