Here is what I think. What does your C think you have been doing all this time? Seems to me you have been trying but your h is the problem. The issue is that he cheats. The issue is that he needs to get his s**t together. He has given you reason not to trust. What does she expect you to do. Accept his lies. I really don't get your C. Please tell your C I said so. Your C can call me too and I would tell her/him.
Lisa, you have been open and honest all along the way. I really don't know what it is that you are running from other than some a-holes who lies and cheats.
