I don't know why, but I find myself working hard to post to you. This is about the third time I started to post. There comes a time when we just do things. We don't give a thought to their motivation. We just go about things as business as usual. It's a great place to be.
If you were to find the first post for me, you would see I was questioning a motivation of my ex. I got to the point where things became all about me. It's a nice place. That doesn't mean that I don't consider the feelings of others. It just means I save my energy for my life. I understand that as someone who is not divorced after 4 years of this nonsense, you have a right to consider more of the actions of the spouse. I am not worried about saving a marriage. I just have a good relationship with my ex and that is good for our sons. But I think my place would be an excellent place for anyone trying to save a marriage to be. It is so nonchalant.
